Forgiveness Isn’t Easy, But It’s Necessary

Hey, it's almost midnight. Do you know what that means? My birthday is almost here!

Today, I celebrate the thirty-third anniversary of my thirtieth birthday. Some people see me as arrogant or deceitful when I say I'm celebrating the "thirty-third anniversary of my thirtieth birthday." This way of celebrating has a deep spiritual and emotional significance for me. In my early twenties, I faced a life-altering medical diagnosis, with a doctor telling me I wouldn't make it to see my thirtieth year. 

The Reality of Fear

First off, fear is natural. We all feel it. It’s like breathing—ain’t nobody out here immune. Fear is that little voice saying, “What if it doesn’t work out?” But guess what? That same voice ain’t paying your bills, so why are you listening to it? Fear thrives on “what ifs” and “maybes,” but you know what? God operates in “I AM” and “YES, YOU CAN.”

Ever been hit with lies and rumors that turned your world upside down? I have. When I was fired as an assistant pastor, the hurt and betrayal cut deep. But in the midst of my anger, I felt a nudge – to show grace just as I had been shown grace. Join me on this journey of healing and grace, and remember, we're all in this together.